Resources for Accomplices

doing your part in dismantling white supremacy:


What is Accountability?
Barnard Center for Research on Women

Creative Interventions toolkit
a community-based approach to ending interpersonal violence

Abolitionist Library

Anti-Racism resources for white people

Abolition vs Reform

Join a Group

Showing Up for Racial Justice (everywhere)


JULY – donate $$ for fans in Ohio prison cells

Columbus Freedom Fund

Cincinnati Bail Fund

Comprehensive list of local bail funds


75 Things White People Can Do for Racial Justice

Spend: Everything Black-Owned in Columbus, OH

Boycott: Grab Your Wallet list (big Trump supporters)
(Columbus, OH’s Friends of the FOP list seems to have been taken down)

Talk with the Kids you Love

Resources for Talking about Race, Racism and Racialized Violence with Kids

And don’t stop. Even when you’re tried. Even when you’re bored. Even when you feel like your part is so small. You contribution is needed, always.

‘You have to act as if it were possible to radically transform the world. And you have to do it all the time.’
 — Angela Davis

Ask for help if you need:


Hello! I’m looking for someone to join me in my 1899 Olde Towne East home.

The House

A 1,552 sq foot, two bedroom, 1.5 bath home w/ yard, around S 21st and Bryden.

Communal Spaces

Your Space

a large bedroom w large window and two large closets.
the bed in this photo is a Queen, i easily fit some extra furniture (desk, tables, standing jewelry box) and it still felt spacious.
the room will be unfurnished.


your costs:
$600/month for rent and utilities

I cover:
internet, maintenance incl. yard and liaison w city as needed

no costs:
– parking (street parking and a little lot adjacent to the house which always has spots open),
– laundry (machines are in the bathroom upstairs–a dream!)

terms of lease:
i’m flexible but thinking 6 month lease and then month to month with a 30 day notice requirement for both parties.


My cat, Binja, is very friendly and well behaved. He’s happiest flying solo, but if you have one kitty of your own we could consider whether they might happily cohabitate. We’re not the right fit for a dog owner, however–sorry!

About Us

About me: 30 year old she/her/hers, I work in reproductive health care & repro rights advocacy, I love riding bikes, yoga, nature shit, and spending quality time with my friends. Hopefully you’ve come here because someone you know sent you here! And hopefully they’d concur that I have a pretty laid back personality and like to take good care of myself/my spaces/my people. I stay in some evenings but am on the go more often than not.

About you: Someone who would be a perfect fit to share a home with me would be a person with progressive values, strong communication skills, and a mindful approach to caring for communal spaces/things. A non-smoker who has, like me, outgrown their regular partying phase would be a great match! Steady income and strong recommendation from someone I know and trust (if we aren’t acquainted yet!) are also required.

Sound good?

If so, I’d like to hear from you! Reach out and tell me about yourself:

The Great Housemate Hunt

hands in meditation

Begin Again (and again…)

Since we can’t take progress for granted, civic engagement is a never ending obligation. Considering this fact could overwhelm you, or it could open up a window of compassion for yourself. For your humanity and the other critical roles you play besides that of Engaged Citizen. This responsibility isn’t going anywhere, it will be here when you can get back to it.

When life knocks you on your ass, throw yourself a pity party, replace the rug that was destroyed by said party and Begin Again.

I wasn’t successful in posting a Sustainable Step a week but I loved this process, I learned a lot and I think the ideas I shared still hold value for folks wondering what tf to do about the dangerously polarized space we live in. I’ll keep sharing my list of sustainable steps for you to revisit or to share with anyone who shares a sentiment along the lines of:

“I feel like I should get involved but I don’t know where to start”

I’d love to refine my suggested calls to action, so feedback is still welcome. Civic engagement is a practice we get to keep improving. We’re doing our best and I’m proud of you for whatever steps you’re able to take to engage in the larger issues that impact our world.


Time is Money. Give them both away.

  1. Think of a group who is marginalized, remember the helpers who are doing right by them, and send your money there.

    Do your research, of course–don’t fall for a scam. A reputable org should be able to tell you what will be done with your donation–and the org should be purpose-built to do it efficiently. For most groups monetary donations are the best way to make the biggest impact.

  2. Then, reflect on the propriety of this solution being addressed by individuals sharing their hard working incomes instead of a real, systemic answer to a critical need.


3. If it pisses you off that you are contributing to a cause that should never be at the mercy of private donors like you in the first place, tell your reps.


Not everyone has the capacity to give. But for some, skipping your matcha habit for a week and sending $25 to a charity is more realistic than signing up for a volunteer shift. Figure out what’s sustainable for you, and whether it involves charitable giving with a side of “Dear elected official: WTF.” If you’re reading this, it probably does!


Making Sure your Vote Counts

You’ve done your research and know where you stand on the issues and the candidates. As you make your game plan, be sure you have all of the details you need. You’ve come too far to get turned away on election day!

For the most part, the laws that determine voting procedure are determined by state. I’ll give example info for the state of Ohio.

Here are four easy-to-make election mistakes, and how to avoid them (spoiler–it’s doing your research):

1. Getting an absentee-by-mail ballot and showing up at your polling place.

In Ohio, if you request an absentee ballot in the mail and then arrive to vote in person, you’ll have to cast a provisional ballot. (and yes, if it’s your only option, you should cast a provisional ballot)

Let’s say you got an absentee ballot but you forgot to buy stamps or for whatever reason you didn’t get your ballot sent in in time. You can still deliver your ballot to your county board of elections on election day.

2. Missing a Valid ID

Requirements vary by state and can change over time. Ohio voter ID requirements can be found here.

If the address on your driver’s license is old, no problem. If your expiration date has passed, however, you need another form of identification. If you have a govt-issued photo ID that is not a driver’s license, the address must be current.

When in doubt–bring a back up form of ID to be sure you are able to cast your ballot.

3. Missing the Poll Closing Time

Even if you think you know when the polls are open, double check! Here is the Voting Schedule for Ohio. In the final days leading up to Ohio elections, the early in-person voting hours get shorter.

And for election day voters, here is a map of poll hours by state.

Ohio polls are open 6:30 am – 7:30 pm. If you’re in line by 7:30 you get to cast your ballot.

4. Heading to your Usual Polling Place sans Research

Double check your polling place at You might need to head to a different place than last time!


Look for the Helpers: Sources of Hope

I took a Women’s Health in Global Perspective Anthropology class a couple of years ago, and some of the content was brutal. We read books on female genital mutilation, female infanticide as a product of son preference, how the response to the AIDS crisis often ignored women, particularly women of color… Heavy, systemic stuff. To soothe our resulting intrapersonal crises,  our professor integrated a section at the end of each class to cover a grassroots organization that worked to address the issue we were discussing.

As bad as things get, there is always someone to look to for hope and inspiration. Hope that there are people like you who are standing for the same thing you believe in, and inspiration to get off the sidelines and become a mover and shaker yourself.

It’s too easy to find media coverage of the scary people, events and systems that keep you up at night. It takes a little more intention to get enough of the good stuff. We’ve talked about a balanced media diet before, and this is another dimension of finding the right mix.

Fill your tank with inspirational stories–not just the infuriating ones. If you can find local groups to follow (and later engage with!) that’s even better. You might just watch a documentary or scan some articles, and social media gets you access to some pretty impressive people, but connecting with someone you relate with IRL is more powerful.

On that note–what are you putting out into the world? I can admit I’m more likely to use my platforms to vent rather than share the good stuff. The same intention we apply to our content consumption can have a role in what we decide to share, too.

No matter what you are feeling, you are not alone.


What kind of helpers and good news resources are you going to look for? Let me know and I’ll point you to any I’m aware of.


Feature Photo by Jon Tyson


Appealing to Your Adversaries

I’m a fan of any tool or community that makes it easier to engage with your rep, but sometimes these resources give lame advice.

A few weeks ago (before multiple women came forward to women have come forward to share their stories of sexual assault at the hands of this nominee) I wanted to call my Senators to ask them to vote against Brett Kavanaugh.

I went to a popular civic action resource and found a script for calling Rob Portman’s office. The script prompted me to demand that Senator Portman defends reproductive freedom. The problem was, Senator Portman is hostile toward women’s right to choose. These talking points weren’t going to cut it.

. . .

You need to advocate for your cause even when it doesn’t align with your rep’s. Yes, your elected official should listen no matter how much they agree with you. But there is an opportunity to make your ask count for more:

1. Know where your rep stands on the general issue.

Is this senator on the record regarding the specific vote or the broader issue? Are you on the same page?

Maybe you don’t agree with their stance. In my case, I was focused on the supreme court nominee’s stance on abortion. Again, we’re in pre-sexual assault allegation land. Stay with me. So abortion rights were a primary concern, but I knew that wasn’t my opportunity to connect with my anti-choice representative.

2. Explore all angles of the topic.

When you call your rep, you want to present as a constituent who might be on their side. When you have something in common, you can come off as someone who they might be able to win over (or retain). Propose about mutual wins instead of digging your heals in on the issues that divide you.

So I wasn’t going to resonate by advocating for reproductive freedoms. I considered other topics of concern regarding the nomination. I knew Portman had vocalized concern with the Commander in Chief. And that Kavanaugh had expressed reluctance toward holding the President accountable for breaking the law. I felt like I was onto something.

I figured presenting first and foremost as a pro-choice advocate would probably have gotten me written off. Don’t get me wrong–I believe there is absolutely a time and place to advocate for fundamental rights that we believe in. But engaging more strategically gives us a better chance of being heard on related-but-separate issues such as this.

3. Bring up your official’s platform promises.

They’ve all got em. Did your rep commit to reducing opioid-related deaths in your state? Bring it up. Say, “I know [Senator] _____ is a champion for _______.” Then make your point for how their vote can make good on the promise they have already made.

Since this Supreme Court nominee demonstrated hostility to a healthcare policy that makes mental health and addiction recovery services more accessible, I tuned into that.

. . .

If you’re going to take a few minutes of your day to appeal to your representative, throw in a moment to consider how to reflect their interests. This takes more work when you’re calling an elected official who sits across the aisle, but it’s a worthwhile investment to make your engagement count.

The same could be said to appeal to a neighbor or family member you don’t always agree with. Connect in ways that resonate with them–or risk broadening the gap. The need for empathy in our communities is increasingly urgent, and everyone has an opportunity to practice.

people in the voting booth

Beyond the Candidates: Ballot Measures

It’s election day. When you wake up, you see the reminder you set for yourself (nice job!). You stroll in to the polling place all smug, pick the candidates you studied up on and then–the ballot issues.


You read the first two lines of the measure and skim the rest after realizing there’s no way you’re going to understand this well enough from the text on the ballot alone (you’re correct).

You leave it empty. Or, go with the party ballot the nice lady in the parking lot handed your overconfident ass on the way in. You make sure you get your sticker but you walk out wondering what you just did. Or so they say, I’m… recalling for a friend.

But ballot measures shouldn’t be forgotten. They cover important issues in your community: drug policy, abortion, taxes, healthcare, rules for future elections, and more.

If you give yourself the time to do a little research, you can earn that sticker for a real one. Go to this list of Ballot Measures by State and get familiar with the issues you’ll see on your ballot in November. Then, check out your county board of elections website for something like this list of certified ballot issues.

Then, find strong sources and learn about their takes. Sometimes the impact of a proposed policy changes is speculative, but there are data you can reference, legislative precedents, and experts who study this stuff for a living. If you aren’t sure where to start, ask a friend you trust for sources to read up, using those media literacy skills we covered in our very first sustainable steps! When ballot issues are complicated we are more vulnerable to misinformation.

It’s worth 15 minutes of your day to get acquainted with these issues–they made it to the ballot because they will impact you and your neighbors.


image: Sam Kalda